Three simple words, many ways to be said, all with one very important message.
I Love You.
One of the most important, loving, heartfelt, sometimes life changing things you can say to a person!
I am really open when it comes to saying those three words. If I truly love someone, I tell them. I can honestly say I’ve got no problem with this. If I love someone; family or friend, and of course my husband, I tell them I love them.
It’s a horrible thing to have to say but when you look back at all the shitty things that have happened in the world in the last year, you truly don’t know what’s around the corner. Life is very short and incredibly valuable. So to me, I just think why wouldn’t we tell one another if we love each other. There is no greater thing to feel than love for someone.
I come across as someone who is quite tough. I am, to an extent. After many years of being a total pushover, I’ve learnt to stand up for myself. I was very meek as a teenager, I wouldn’t speak up if I disagreed with someone. Now, I take no crap! I found my voice, and I use it! As I should. However, beneath this tough exterior, I think (and I truly believe my friends would agree) I am one of the most loyal and softest people going! I may stand my ground but I can honestly say I hate arguments and if I can avoid them I will. I may be outspoken, but I’d hate to hurt someones feelings. And if I’m talking to someone I love on the phone, or saying bye to someone I love before heading off somewhere I always end the conversation with “love you”. It’s part of who I am, and it’s important to me to let people know they are loved.
So this weeks Monday Motivation is a very short, sweet and simple one. Tell those around you that you love them. It’s so important and it goes a long way.
Have a great week <3